
Buying gifts should be an enjoyable event, not something you dread doing! For most people, buying presents normally ends up being a stressful job, which leads to frustration and a lot of the time they leave with nothing because they can’t decide. It doesn’t have to be like this though!
The trick to buying a present is to really think about what the person enjoys, their personality and what they really need. There is nothing worse then receiving a present that may be beautiful, but in the end will end up unused. So, before you hit the shops think about these five main questions and make a list of your answers and some possible gift ideas:
How much money can you afford to spend?
This first question will ultimately rule out lots of choices and make your time shopping shorter! Rather than putting yourself in debt, really work out your budget and work around this. A gift doesn’t need to be expensive to make it special, it just needs to have thought put into it.
Are they male or female?
Women are generally easier to buy presents for because you can just buy them some face or body products and they will be happy! Otherwise, everyone is usually happy with some good DVDs, CD's or books.
How old are they?
People of common ages have common interests so this will cut down your shopping time if you can determine what things may interest them. Shop assistants are great for getting advice from, so ask them what they find to be common gifts for specific ages.
What is the occasion?
Are you buying the gift for a wedding, birthday, anniversary or simply a thank you present? If it is for a wedding present, think about what the newly weds may need in terms of household goods, appliances etc. Quite often if you are buying a thank you present it only needs to be something small to show your gratitude, so even a nice bottle of wine and some delicious food is suitable for this!
What are their hobbies?
Do they play sport, enjoy music, play an instrument, enjoy reading or cooking? This is an opportunity to think about whether they need some new sport equipment, cook books or a new CD.
Once you have taken all these questions into consideration, select a day to go shopping when you know you will have a lot of time to select your gift. There is nothing worse than a last minute present buy because there will be no thought put into it, so make sure you leave plenty of time.
If you really have no clue on what to buy them, gift certificates are always a winner, BUT make sure you buy them one from a shop where you know they would actually buy something from themselves. There is no point in buying a Dymocks gift voucher for someone if you know they haven’t read a book in years!
Tip: Save the more personal gifts such as jewellery and perfume for that special someone and for a special occasion.
Buying jewellery as a gift
Jewellery makes a very personal gift, so is usually saved for that special someone, or someone you are very close to. Buying jewellery doesn’t necessarily have to cost you and arm and a leg, it’s a matter of finding out what the recipient likes and working this into what you can afford.
Some things to consider when buying jewellery as a gift include the following:
- Do they prefer silver, bronze or gold?
- What type of jewellery do they wear most often- rings, necklaces or bracelets? Or do they actually wear jewellery at all?
- What are you trying to say by giving them this gift? Rings are probably the most personal of all jewellery gifts because they are traditionally traded by lovers, so take this into consideration before you purchase the ring for your brand new girlfriend/boyfriend! Guys, beware of buying diamond rings for your girl unless you’re ready for commitment!
- Do they like plain jewellery or do they like a particular stone? E.g. diamonds, pearls, rubies, topaz or amethyst? If you’re unsure maybe think about the coloured clothes that this person wears most because this quite often will be the colour of their favourite stone!
- Take their lifestyle factors into consideration- do they work in a job that does not allow them to wear rings for example? If so, maybe buy them a necklace instead so they can get wear out of it.
- Do they already own something similar to what you’re about to purchase? If so, then put some extra thought into the present and buy them something original and that will really blow them away.
If you’re unsure of some of the answers to these questions, a good way to really find out what they like is to ask a close friend/family member who would know- but if you’re really unsure what they like then maybe jewellery isn’t the gift to be buying this person just yet because really, it should be saved for someone special who you really know!
Buying perfume as a gift
This is another personal gift to be buying, so is quite hard to make that final decision on which type to choose. How do you know what perfume they like? This is a tricky one…so the main question you do need to think about is this:
- What type of personality do they have?
- Are they outgoing, shy, sporty, flirty or romantic at heart?
Different perfumes have different scents which suit different types of personalities. Some are fruity, musky, floral, or have a woody scent and they all suit different types of people depending a lot on their personality. So, if the person you are buying the perfume for is quite sporty, go for something fresh, maybe with an oceanic scent because it resembles the outdoors. Or, if they are quite outgoing and loud, it’s fair to say they will prefer a bold, musky scent that really stands out in the crowd.
Before your purchase the perfume it’s probably best to find out what other scents they already own. This way, you will get more of an idea on what types of scents they like. Another good tip is to go and get some samples of different perfumes, ask the person your buying for the smell them all (pretending they are for you!) and ask them which ones they like best.
Perfume is probably one of the hardest presents to buy a person because there are so many different types available and everyone has their own individual tastes, so it’s best saved for someone you feel you really know!
Happy shopping! |